Gifts to Give Yourself Based on Your Love Language

We spend so much time thinking about how to show love to others, but what about ourselves? Knowing your love language isn’t just about relationships—it’s a powerful way to nurture yourself, too. The way you receive love from others is the same way you should be showing love to yourself. Whether it’s through meaningful words, indulgent experiences, or beautiful keepsakes, here’s how to treat yourself in a way that feels truly fulfilling.

During the month of love and throughout the year, we encourage you to turn inwards and think about what YOU need from yourself. 

Words of Affirmation: Speak Kindly to Yourself

The way we speak to ourselves shapes our confidence, and mindset. If your love language is words of affirmation, give yourself the gift of encouragement and self-belief. The words you tell yourself matter, and it’s time to make sure they reflect the love and appreciation you deserve.

• Start a daily affirmation journal, write yourself a love letter, or place little sticky notes with encouraging messages around your home. Let your inner voice be one of love and encouragement. Record a voice memo filled with affirmations and play it back when you need a boost. Surround yourself with books and music that uplift and inspire you.

Quality Time: Make Moments Just for You

If quality time is your love language, embrace the beauty of slowing down and enjoying your own company. Your presence is enough, and it’s worth cherishing. The world moves fast, but you don’t have to. Prioritizing yourself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.

• Take yourself on a solo date—wine tasting, a museum visit, or a scenic walk. Set aside an afternoon to do something just for you, without guilt or distractions. Try a new hobby, take a class, or book a weekend getaway to reconnect with yourself. The more you invest in quality time with yourself, the more fulfilled you’ll feel.

Physical Touch: Indulge in Sensory Luxury

For those who crave physical connection, embracing soft textures, soothing skincare, and tactile experiences is the key to self-care. Your body deserves to be cared for and nurtured in a way that feels deeply satisfying.

• A bracelet or necklace with a smooth, comforting texture that feels luxurious against your skin—something you can reach for throughout the day as a little reminder to care for yourself. Jewelry should feel as good as it looks. Pearl jewelry is an excellent option.
• Book a self-care experience! If you are local to the Okanagan, we love The Green Vanity, Bellevue Day Spa, or Orah Spa for a facial, massage, or skin treatment. If you are at home, wrap yourself in a plush robe, apply a rich body oil, and truly sink into the moment. Take up a practice like yoga or stretching that allows you to connect with your body in a meaningful way.

Acts of Service: Take Something Off Your Plate

Loving yourself through acts of service means making life easier, more peaceful, and less overwhelming. This year, let go of stress and allow yourself to receive support—even from yourself. Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is to lighten your own load.

• Hire someone to deep clean your home, meal-prep for the week, or outsource a task that’s been weighing on you. Automate parts of your routine to create more ease in your day. Set up a recurring self-care ritual, whether that’s a standing nail appointment, grocery delivery, or blocking off time for yourself on the calendar—because you deserve care, too.

Receiving Gifts: Celebrate Yourself with Something Special

If receiving gifts brings you joy, then treat yourself with the same thoughtfulness you would show a loved one. The best part? You always know exactly what you want. There is no reason to wait for someone else to celebrate you—you can do it for yourself.

• The Lisbeth Necklace, Eliza Necklace, Lisbeth Earrings, and Tatianna Necklace—all feature hearts, because the most important love story is the one you have with yourself. Choose a piece that symbolizes self-love and wear it as a daily reminder.
• Buy yourself fresh flowers, order that handbag you’ve been eyeing, or indulge in a little luxury just because. You don’t need a reason to treat yourself. Create a “just because” wishlist and pick something off of it every month. The joy of giving doesn’t have to come from someone else—you can give to yourself, too.

Your Year for Love

The new year is the perfect time to embrace what makes you feel whole. Whether it’s through affirming words, quality time, luxurious touch, acts of ease, or thoughtful gifts, show up for yourself in the way you deserve. Loving yourself isn’t an indulgence; it’s a necessity. Here’s to a year of cherishing the most important relationship of all—the one you have with yourself.

What’s your love language, and how will you be treating yourself this year? Let us know in the comments!